Lady branded 'merciless' after revealing why she doesn't need her stepdaughter to name her mum

A lady has been labelled “merciless” after telling her stepdaughter to not name her mum.

She defined that she has been collectively along with her husband for a decade, and he has full custody of his daughter. She additionally shares three sons along with her husband, and that the younger woman is the “just one who does not name me ‘mum’ in the home.”

She defined on Mumsnet that her husband was overjoyed with the concept of his daughter calling her stepmum ‘mum’.

She stated that the woman had already began calling her mum, and it makes her “so uncomfortable” – so she desires her husband to inform her to cease.

She stated:

“My hubby and I’ve been collectively 10 years, he has a 11 yo [daughter] and has full custody of her (final time she noticed her mum she was about 1).

“I even have 3 sons with him. She is the one one who does not name me ‘mum’ in the home.

“She requested me a few weeks in the past if she may name me mum like her 3 brothers.

“My [husband] could be very very very enthusiastic about it, for him it is a signal that she loves me.

“However I’m not snug with the concept, I’ve my very own children. I’m scared to inform my husband as a result of he appears to be so joyful of her asking me.

“How can I inform him ? Am I being merciless ?”

A few of the commenters stated that they have been “heartbroken” for the younger woman, whereas others branded the lady “merciless” for the way in which she handled her – significantly as she had recognized the woman for many of her life.

Somebody commented:

“Why are you so in opposition to this? You HAVE been her her mum, all her life! I’d really feel completely honoured. I’m making an attempt to to not be impolite right here however you’re coming throughout actually badly!”

One other particular person wrote:

“That is brutal and if I used to be you I might query myself on why I wish to not be seen as this children mum, particularly if you’ve successfully raised her.”